Sunday, June 24, 2012

Using the Walker at Easter Seals Capper Foundation


Jaxon is using his walker so much better.  In these pictures he is getting a little tired.  He had already walked a long way.  I am so extremely proud of him.  He could just give up and cry and throw a fit, but he doesn't he just keeps on going.  Ok maybe he gets a little distracted as we walk by every open door but hey who doesn't wanna see that cute face.  Jaxon was invited to a private breakfast with 10 other kids from Capper's to see the new penguin exhibit at the zoo in July.  I can't wait.  It will be just a couple days before his birthday.  What a great birthday.  Sad part is Daddy can't come, but we will take lots of pictures.




Farm Pictures


A few pictures of our corn just coming up and the wheat starting to turn.  And of course me and my buddy riding the 4 wheeler.


Checking the Corn

Pretty Rows

I love when the Wheat is just starting to turn


Hi Daddy


Father's Day 2012 @ Tarc Park


We took Jaxon to the TARC park in the morning and then took Daddy out to lunch before I headed off to work.  We had a great morning.  It was a little muggy but Jaxon didn't seem to notice.


He loves playing ball in the tunnel

Cheering for himself.  I love this little boy

Peek a Boo

Counting with Daddy

Mommies turn

Daddy swings so much higher

I've got this Dad I'm a big Boy

Swimming


Jaxon and my niece Brynna loved the pool.  

Talkin to Brynna

Brynna using her foot to spray Jaxon in the face



Friday, June 15, 2012

Feeding Tube Awareness Foundation


Here is a great website to explore.  The tabs at the top explaining tubes, a family and friends section and inspiring stories.  If you wanna know more about Jaxon's feeding tube this is a really great place to go.

http://www.feedingtubeawareness.org/index.html

Friday, May 25, 2012

CVI - Cortical Vision Impairement

Jaxon has had CVI since he was born.  It has several causes and Jaxon had a few of them in the NICU.  Low oxygen level, Brain Bleed, and Infection.

Below are a few links to some information.  We have known for 3 years Jaxon had CVI but until a few days ago I had no idea it was why he likes lights so much.  Several articles I have read mention either favoring light or hating it.  I guess with all his other medical problems I haven't took much time to read up on this.  I know he needs objects to be large, he needs good lighting to see things and he prefers objects to move at a distance so he can see them, this includes ME.  He also needs things to be high contrast.  For example, an object may need to have a black background for him to see it really well.  He has always bobbed his head back and forth, and we believe he was doing this to see object farther away.  If his head is moving essentially so is the object.

One article even hits on auditory processing.  I've been learning about this in some of Jaxon's therapies at Capper Foundation.  Basically it means when told to do something Jaxon may take up to 30 sec to respond.  His brain doesn't process things it hears as quickly as ours does.  I thought it was interesting it was related to CVI.

http://www.aph.org/cvi/articles/alexander_1.html - talks about his love for light

http://www.aph.org/cvi/define.html - What is CVI??

http://www.news.ku.edu/2011/october/5/ipad.shtml - KU is wanting to get a grant to do a study on children with CVI and how the ipad can impact their lives.  Reading, writing and such.

Jaxon was just diagnosed as legally blind for distance.  I was a little heart broken to hear this.  I've always known he was probably considered legally blind, but it's that piece of paper with a diagnoses I guess.  On the bright side it will allow for the school district access to funding for any special things he may need. 

This week we wrote Jaxon's IEP (Iindividual Education Plan) for next school year.  In attendance were Special Ed teacher, Vision Specialist, Early Education Supervisor, Occupational therapist, Hearing and Deaf therapist, Physical therapist, Social Worker, Speech therapist, TARC caseworker and then Jason and I.  It was a full house.  It was a stressful and emotionally draining.  It wasn't really bad, its just you get to hear all the things your child doesn't do.  We have accepted Jaxon's delays but hearing them all in a 2 hour period can be a little depressing.  I think the meeting went pretty well.  Jason and I both felt like they met our goals with therapy sessions and goals for Jaxon throughout the year.  All of the teachers were very positive and seemed to have a very good handle on what they wanted to work on with him.  He did a have a couple of them fooled into thinking he couldn't do certain things.  I reassured them, they just need to push him.  He will throw a fit and ignore you just like any other kid.  These meetings can be a little on the tense side.  I suppose they know telling you all these things about your child could be a little much.  And each person is carving out their place in his plan.  They were very open to what we wanted for him however.  When someone brought up him having his own para (teachers helper).  The teacher immediately looked at us and asked "is that what you want?"  We of course do not want this for him.  We expect him to receive help and guidance but he needs to learn some independence.  I don't follow him around the house all day and there will not be someone following him around for the rest of his life.  We want him to learn to stand on his own to feet as much as possible.

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

My sensory seeking son


Jaxon is what they call a sensory seeker.  He looks for things to give him the sort of sensory experience he wants.  Somethings you might think he would like he hates.  He puked a while back when touching cotton balls but he will let a spinner toy hit him in the mouth until his lips are bleeding.  The only way its been explained to me is his brain doesn't process things the same way mine does.  When you give him a command he may not process it for 30sec to 1min.  So repeating yourself will only make it worse.  He then becomes very confused.  Here are some sensory seeking pictures.  He is trying to get the light from the toy to hit him in the face.  We of course know he won't feel anything, but he doesn't realize it until he tries for awhile.

Here he is trying to put his mouth on it without knocking it over.

Watching the lights trying to figure out if he can feel something


He has finally figured out if he keeps touching it, it will stop spinning every time.