Wednesday, May 16, 2012
The Walker -- 3rd times a charm
This is the 3rd walker Jaxon has tried out and it seems to be the best fit. He is doing really well, ok except for the face plant on the concrete yesterday. But otherwise he likes using it and it really gives him more independence. It also has a hip and pelvic stabilizer so he has a little more support.
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
Elmo and the Super hero's
We took Jaxon to see Elmo Live at Topeka Performing Arts Center. He had a great time. We decided it was only worth it to buy the up close tickets so he could see well. And we were glad we did. A couple of times he lost the characters in the background but otherwise did really well. It amazes me how the writers of the show can keep a 2yo's attention for 1.5 hrs is beyond me. He lost interest about 20min before it was over so we entertained him with chips and a spinning toy we bought at intermission. Here are a few pictures.
| Jaxon meeting Elmo |
| Super Elmo |
| Me and my little buddy |
Thursday, April 26, 2012
Preschool
Ok, so sending a special needs child to preschool is a lot more work than I thought. Jaxon just finished up with a diagnostic class today. Basically it's 3 weeks of classroom with the regular preschoolers. Throughout the 3 weeks teachers,therapists and para's get to know Jaxon. Evaluate him and get ready for school in August. Weather it be ordering materials and equipment to training for his medical needs. He claimed the nickname "Jax" boy that didn't take long. There was another little boy named Jackson so it was easier for our Jaxon to take a nickname. I really like the approach the teachers take to teaching the kids independence. Getting Jaxon independent is always at the top of our priority list.
The 1st thing we had to do was in January write a letter to the school district with a little history requesting a meeting to get Jaxon into preschool. Then the meeting was scheduled 3 months later with a special ed teacher, social worker, and whatever therapists were able to attend. After the meeting it was time to schedule his diagnostic classroom visit. Before he could begin school he needed a physical. Well, since Jaxon is a popular customer with the Dr, we had already seen the Dr so it was just paper work to be filled out. We went for one classroom visit while there were a couple of other kids in class. Jaxon took to the teacher right away so it made us feel very confident he was gonna like school. Then it was the 1st day and he cried a little when mommy left. After a couple days of this and he was so over mommy leaving. When I asked him in the mornings if he wanted to go to school, I got a response of "cool" His new word for school. He didn't get to ride the school bus because of his seizures. The nice thing about this 3 week period, it allowed us to get special medication and the school is going to train someone to ride with him. The medication is basically the same thing he has at home to stop a seizure it's just in a different form, which is much easier to administer. However, it costs about $200 a dose, so I can see why the neurologist doesn't like to prescribe it normally. With that all worked out Jaxon will get to ride the school but come August.
He has had a busy few weeks. In addition to preschool, his TARC Physical Therapist brought him yet another walker to try out. Wahoooo 3rd times a charm. This walker fits him so well and he actually likes using it. I will try to post pictures of him using it soon. As long as he continues to do well for the next 3 weeks or so his therapist is going to help us order his own. So insurance devil's be ready for momma bear if you have any thoughts about denying his claim. Jaxon has been able to use it at school to get out to the playground and we took him on a visit to TARC's playground where the surface it great for him to get moving with the walker. TARC's playground is open to anyone anytime. There is a pass code on the gate with instructions to keep little ones from escaping. It's really nice and kind of quiet if your looking for a place to take smaller children.
Friday, March 16, 2012
I Love a Tubie!!
A couple weeks ago was tube feeding awareness week. Obviously I didn't get my post done in time, but I still would like to share how the tube works and the impact it has had on Jaxon's life.
Below is what we call a Mic Key Button. On the face it tell the size. Jaxon's is a 12french .8cm. He will soon be getting a larger one since he has grown. This is the smallest button made. When not in use the stopper on the left goes into the hole. Just like a beach ball.
Next is a picture of the balloon. In surgery they brought up a part of Jaxon's stomach lining and tacked it to his flesh. This allows it to stay in one place so when i put the tube in it automatically goes into his stomach.
Below is a picture of how it looks when inserted into the stomach. The balloon on the bottom is empty when I insert it and then from the small white tip on the right I insert a syringe and fill the balloon with 4ml of water and this keeps the button in place. Sometimes the balloon can leak or burst. If you have another button handy just put another in, if not you have to tape this one to his stomach so the hole doesn't close up. You can also see a tube in the middle of the button. This tube is where the food goes through and comes out the hole on the bottom into the stomach.
To the right of the button is what we call the extension tube. It goes from the feeding bag into the button. It is about 12inch long. We also give medications through this extension tube with a syringe.
In this picture the extension tube and the button are hooked together. It's a bit hard to see but the lines on the extension tube and the button are lined up. You can see this a little better in the above picture.
Then you just twist it to the right just like the arrows show. Amazing how simple this seems and we had a nurse turn it the wrong way and break the inside of the button. Insurance only pays for 1 a month and you always want a back up. So needless to say I wasn't not a happy camper.
This is the feeding pump. It's fairly simple to operate. You just input the volume you would like to feed in milliliters. Then you input the rate you want the pump to run at. Usually the goal is 30 minutes. So if you need to feed 210 mils you want your rate to be 420. We set it to run over 8 hrs at night. So the rate is much slower. When the correct amount has gone through the pump it sets off an alarm telling you it's done.
What a great way to wake up at 6am......
| With the rubber tubing hooked up. |
This is an IV pole where we hang the bag from and the pump attaches. We use a new bag everyday to ensure it doesn't grow any bacteria. The extension tube I described above gets changed every week.
This is Jaxon's main source of nutrition. He goes through 5 cases a month with 24 cans in a case. After we went off breast milk and formula this was 100% of his nutrition. He has since began eating some puree accounting for about half of his calories per meal. He requires 210 calories during his 3 meals a day and he eats about half. He also gets 100-150 calories twice a day from snacks and 250 calories at a night feeding.
Seizure update: Jaxon had another seizure a week ago on Tuesday. So we did labs and if he has another seizure we are going to up his seizure medication. It was the 1st one since surgery. It was milder than the others, no convulsions. He deviates his head to the left and attempted to puke a couple times. He also came out of it on his own for the 1st time. Usually he requires meds and lots of them and a few times an ambulance ride. Afterward he slept if off and was back to his old self. We have an MRI scheduled for April 25th to make sure surgery is working as intended so we will know more then.
| Feeding tube on his tummy. |
Saturday, March 10, 2012
6 Things You Don't Know About a Special Needs Parent
This is a great article about a special needs mom speaking out about her life. This doesn't apply to every situation but I can relate to most of it.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/maria-lin/special-needs-parenting_b_1314348.html?ref=parents
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/maria-lin/special-needs-parenting_b_1314348.html?ref=parents
Friday, March 2, 2012
Sledding 2012
Jaxon's 1st adventure sledding. He had a fit putting on his snow suit but then cried when we made him come inside. (Sorry my more recent posts are a little out of order)
| I'm not so sure about this |
| I'm still not happy about the suit or this hat Mom |
| Daddy is the Best |
| I think someone is having fun!! |
| Happy little man |
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| He could have stayed out in the cold for hours |
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